Partha Chatterjee, Nation and its Fragments: Colonial and Postcolonial Histories. Princeton University Press, 1993: Chap. 6: The nation and its women.
Prem Chowdhry, ‘First our jobs then our girls’: The dominant caste perceptions on the ‘rising’ Dalits. Modern Asian Studies 43(2): 437-479, 2009.
Lucinda Ramberg and Srimati Basu (Eds), Conjugality Unbound: Sexual Economies, State Regulation and the Marital Form in India. Women Unlimited, 2015:
Lucinda Ramberg, When the Devi is your husband: Sacred marriage and sexual economy in south India, pp. 103-132.
Janaki Abraham, Contingent caste endogamy and patriarchy: Lessons for our understanding of caste, pp.
Rajani Palriwala and Ravinder Kaul, Introduction: Marriage in South Asia: Continuities and transformations. In Ravinder Kaur & Rajni Palriwala.(eds), Marrying in South Asia: Shifting Concepts, Changing Practices in a Globalising World. Orient Blackswan, 2014, 1-28.
This week’s pieces focus on women and their positionality within communities – caste, class, religion - and how their identities are tied to kinship and understood though family and marriage structures.
Partha Chatterjee’s piece provides the background against which we can situate the larger arguments of the other pieces. He addresses the 'women’s question' or rather, the diminishing importance of it, in the period of nationalism, especially since it was a central issue during debates on social reform in the early and mid-nineteenth century in Bengal (Rammohan Roy and Vidysagar).
Chatterjee
argues that nationalism did in fact address the women’s question/the position
of women not in terms of an identity but
in terms of a difference between the
East and the West. Nationalism situated the women’s question in an ‘inner
domain of sovereignty’ and notion of ‘tradition’ that was separate from the
political and the state.
He
traces it back to when the colonisers identified Indian traditions as barbaric
and degenerate, especially on account of how women were subject to oppressive
and unfree norms. Tradition came to be seen as
requiring reform, in need of 'civilising’ and to be replaced by science, western
education and thought.
The
response to this, by Nationalists, was to separate the domain of culture into
two spheres – the material and the spiritual. The claims of the west were seen as being most powerful in
the material domain with the use of science, technology, norms of economic
organisation and statecraft. Nationalists accepted the reforming of this sphere
in order to overcome the domination by colonisers, but they felt that a blind appropriation
of all things western could erode the self-identity of national culture. They
thus sought to confine the influence of the
west on the material sphere, and retain and safeguard the spiritual domain, which was seen as superior to the West.
This separation
was further condensed into the idea of the inner and outer spheres - the material
representing the outer and the spiritual the inner. As long as India retained the
inner, it could appropriate from the West. Encroachments in the ‘inner’
sanctum would lead to the annihilation of national identity and thus had to be protected. This dichotomy got mapped on to the ‘home’ and the ‘outside’. The outside was seen as being the
domain of men and the home or ‘inner’ sphere represented by women. This is the ideological
framework within which nationalism sought to answer the women’s question.
This theme
was taken up in all forms of communication and structured family life and women’s
roles accordingly. But to the extent that family life was entangled with wider
relations, the ‘inner’ could not remain isolated
from the ‘outside’. This led to the idea that the westernisation of women had
to be done differentially, in degree and manner, from the men.
Concrete
problems arose in the separation of material/spiritual, inner/outer as a result
of the rapidly changing circumstances in which the new middle class found
themselves. Various solutions to deal with the changing inner and outer
included reconstructing ‘classical’ traditions, modernised folk forms, the
utilitarian logic of the bureaucratic and industrial practices, the idea of equality
in the democratic state etc.
The new
woman was defined as a result of the shifts and changes and subjected to new patriarchal
forms. Now Indian women were contrasted with modern western society as well as indigenous
traditions (the same traditions the colonisers critiqued). Nationalists still
drew cultural markers from this tradition but this was a ‘classical’ tradition
that was reformed. The New woman was seen in contrast to the ‘common’ woman’ –
who was course, vulgar, loud etc. Nationalist sought to now reform the latter
category of woman.
New
patriarchy adopted the hegemonic form and combined coercive authority with
subtle persuasion. This was expressed in various ays such as through adulation of women as goddesses
which served to erase her sexuality as she engaged in the ‘outer world’.
Chatterjee
highlights how women became a sign of the nation within a nationalist discourse
on women where women do not speak.
His
argument is an attempt to critique the idea that nationalism was premised on a total rejection of the West. Chatterjee’s
intent is to show that the nationalist paradigm supplied an ideological
principle of ‘selection’ - in other
words, it was not a dismissal of modernity, which lead to the absence of the
women’s question, but a selective approach to modernity to make it consistent
with the nationalist project that positioned women in certain ways. We continue
to see women and their relation and roles in communities in this way.
Prem Chowdhury’s
piece looks at how the changing political economy in villages in Haryana have
led to a restructuring of caste relations, with certain Dalit communities
gaining social and occupational mobility and power, and upper castes feeling threatened
and undermined.
Chowdhury
looks at instances of inter-caste marriages and elopement between Dalit and Jat
men and women as a site in which to explore new relationships produced by the
restructuring of caste positions and the inter-caste politics that follow.
Inter-
caste marriages are on the one hand a resistance to traditional endogamous marriage
practices, especially between dalit and non-dalit communities, but then also become the site in which upper
caste-communities seek to maintain social, ritual and cultural hierarchy.
Through
inter-caste marriages, she looks at how the concepts of bhaichara (brotherhood), biradari (community)
and izzat (honour) are practised and deployed selectively when dealing individuals who
challenge norms, and the communities they belong to.
Both Ramberg and
Abraham’s pieces set up arguments
against certain dominant discourses. Devadasis, usually women from Dalit caste
groups in Karnataka, have been seen in much of state and social-justice visions
as “needing reform”. As against this, Ramberg writes of the value that
dedication brings in the lives of those dedicated to the goddess Yellamma,
refusing to see them only as “oppressed”. Abraham questions one of the basic
tenets of how caste has traditionally been defined- endogamy. Through one historical
and another contemporary case study, she argues that endogamy as a practice
within castes is not as rigid as usually understood.
Lucinda Ramberg, in seeking to understand the nature of value derived
in the dedication of women to the goddess Yellamma in Karnataka, complicates
the understanding of Devadasi lives beyond oppression, material hardships and
lack of choice.
Devadasis are “married” to the Goddess Yelamma. Such
forms of dedication have been opposed by the state as well as social reform
activists. However, in the piece Ramberg pays attention to the value families
generate by “giving” their daughters to the Goddess. She also argues that in
being “given”, the women do not necessarily lose their agency. Drawing from
Strathern’s ideas, she lays out the idea of persons as constituted by a set of
relations. She pays attention to how most Devadasis, who come from Dalit
castes, come to become mediators of the devotion of dominant caste groups
towards Yellamma. “Dedication to
Yellamama intiates a network of exchange relations, mutual obligations and
forms of care which flow among Dalit dedicated women, dominant caste devotees
and the Goddess herself”, she writes.
She devotes a considerable part of the paper to
explicating how “being given” does not imply a loss of agency, and material
returns for sexual relations does not necessarily constitute oppression( in
fact, “material gains” structure legitimated forms of marriage too). She ends
the piece by making two suggestions; “marriage is a technology for the
transaction of sexuality into different economies of value” and” pursuing the
question of value maybe more fruitful than attempting to measure the absence or
presence of agency as the property of a person”.
Janaki Abraham questions what has come to be seen as a key feature
of caste- endogamy. She argues that endogamy-related practices of castes are
dynamic, and argues the need for attention to such dynamism. She argues that
the shift in the assertion of endogamy vary according to caste’s consciousness
and its aspirations at a particular historical moment. She uses two divergent
empirical instances to make her point- the shifts in the enforcement of
endogamy among the Thiyyas of North Kerala, and the “endogamy paradox” in
Haryana- where on the one hand, honour killings occur and on the other,
cross-region marriages.
In the case of Thiyyas, she discusses how cohabiting
with Europeans was not taboo in the early 19th century, and how this
gradually transforms. Caste-endogamy is not fixed within the practices of the
caste, but a shifting feature. She discusses how in marriages that occur in
non-local contexts, such as importing of brides in Haryana, caste remains vague
but does not really seem to matter. This is different in local contexts, where
marriage-associations particularly with stigmatized caste groups draws greater
censure.
Overall, her argument is against seeing caste and its
practices as a fixed stable entity. Instead, she calls for how caste dynamics
change according to context. “This brings together past memories of stigma and
discrimination, relationships of power and domination in the present and
aspirations for the future”.
Rajni Palriwala and Ravinder Kaur account for the importance of practices of marriage and weddings in
South Asia with an emphasis on the cultural and social politics of marriage and
divorce for women. The authors discuss the different types of marital
arrangements, social changes and the notion of self- choice marriages. There
are several articulations of marriage such as the social and economic security
it provides women, the legitimacy it gives their conjugal relationship and
raises their status in society. The types of social sanctions against diverse
marriages- such as honour killings, violence against women, and divorce are
also explained with examples. The authors talk about how the various social
markers such as caste, class and economic status intersect with the institution
of marriage in the modern age which strengthen community identity and fortify
kinship ties. There is a mention of the agency women use in getting out of a
bad marriage which is inconsistent and unpredictable which needs further
unpacking. The authors attempt to link larger factors such as globalisation and
economic progress to have led to changes in spousal selection, and
articulations of marriage aspirations etc. Finally, the authors ask if a reconfiguration of marriage can exist
without the institution of marriage being subject to the social, economic,
sexual, political and cultural hierarchies that have been so closely tied to it
so far?
The Institution of Marriage: Shifting
Frameworks
There
have been several outlines by which anthropologists and sociologists tried to
explain their work on kinship, marriage and family. The theoretical shifts in
understanding of these topics have varied with time. Changes from the
structural functional to structural and then to cultural frameworks have led to
several insights. Schenider’s remark (1984) in the area of kinship studies
about the ethnocentrism and the implicit ‘orientalism’ was that of a
non-existence of a multicultural category called kinship. However, the
subsequent study of books in the next two decades where kinship and marriage
figured, a pattern of attending to ‘understudied’ groups such as ‘tribes’,
‘remote communities’ and non-Hindus.
Looking
at the arguments around the extent of changes in marriage and family relations
in South Asia, the author noted few important issues. Their first query was
what made marriage a perceived common and necessary social institution across
South Asia. What comprised it into a region? They stated several reasons why
this could have happened. The geographical features of the land, with the
Himalayas; the vast oceans and the modern formation of the South Asian
Association for Regional Cooperation (SAARC). The economic and trade links
between regions in South Asia over time strengthened and colonialism led to the
forced control of all these areas by the British, leading to common practices.
The various religions and communities in South Asia added to its diversity
which interacted, intermingled and on several levels negotiated for dominance
and power. Social communities which represented their own cultural practices
followed their own rules of marriage, family and rituals.
Renewing Tradition and Diversity
While
the marital practices have been understood as a universal structure,
anthropological work has problematised the notion and have found diversity in
marriage practices. The authors mention several configurations of marriage
amongst family members- like cross-cousin, uncle-niece marriages among many
communities in the North and South of India and Muslim communities. Also the
marital residence rules of matrilineal househols in the Malabar, or Northeast
were not in accordance with
patrilocality. There was also a difference noticed in the marriage prestations
in terms of dowry and bride price.
As
gender gained momentum in the area of social science, it immediately drew the
attention of academics and researchers who used the gender to analyse marriage
practise which resulted significant studies on womens work patterns, constructs
of this diversity and its link to regional demographic patterns in sex ratios,
marriageable age and womens empowerment or the lack of it. Domestic violence
and widow remarriage were examined. Consanguineous marriage among south Indian
muslims were looked at and it was seen that these marriages were conducted to
maintain community identity and added to their secular prestige.
Marital Prestations, Weddings and
Beyond
Another
topic that has been in academic circulation and discussion has been the
marriage payments, bride price and the spread of practices of dowry and its
implications for womens status, gender and marital relations. The debate on
dowry, as female inheritance, has new interpretations today. It is seen that
urban working women choose better marriages for themselves as their have the
ability to earn and pay for their own dowry. However, legal rights to parental
property is still contested by women across several communities. Along with
dowry, lavish marriage ceremonies and several functions has increased the
expenditure, mainly amongst the upper and middle classes. Influence of popular
media is creating standardised ‘ideal’ notions of a wedding. The
commercialisation of weddings has increased especially in a culture which was
market-driven in which ‘traditional’ practices has become a source of profit.
On
the other hand, the dark side of the fall out of a marriage are crimes such as
bride burning, harassment for dowry and even honour killings. In these
instances violence is directed towards young women or couples who are seen as
violating norms or not fulfilling the traditional demands of the marriage
contract for example- dowry.
Economies of Marriage and Work
It is
important to understand social class structures, work organisation, systems of
production and caste hierarchies to observe the cultural arrangements for
social reproduction.
The
farmers of smaller holdings of land in plantations have seen the changing configurations
of marriage. This is due to changes in the economic conditions and shifts in
labour force.
The
concept of love or self-choice marriage are not limited to the middle classes
but are prevelant everywhere. For example, the garment workers in Chennai enter
into ‘love’ marriages by challenging the norms and arrangement of traditional
marriage. Some poor parents willing consent to the decision of self-choice
marriages as they see it as a relief of not having to find a partner for their
child and a way out of having to pay dowry. It’s the middle class women in
South Asia who experience a conflict between a need to work to fulfil their
sense of independence and the necessity to fulfil marital obligations.
Making A Marriage
What
makes a marriage modern? Can we use pre-marital courtship and self-choice be
measure? Or are there diverse modernities? One way of gauging this is to see
the changes in the trends of matchmaking and how this reflects in the desires
and expectations of marriage from families and couples. There have been a
variety of factors such as migration, urbanisation, rising educational levels
and greater socio-economic differentiation that have changed the trends in
matchmaking. Traditional arrangements between communities still are encouraged.
There are other resources that are used if traditional modes of matchmaking
does not work. Marriage Bureaus, fairs, newspaper matrimonial advertisements or
internet websites (Shaadi.com) are available as alternate methods of finding a
partner.
Majumdar
(2009) indicates how a rise in urbanisation and the fall in the popularity of
Bengali ghatak (the matchmaker)
resulted in the use of newspapers matrimonials esp. among the colonial and
post-colonial urban middle class of Kolkata. the website profiles led to
gendered changes with women having to look more physically attractive. This
established the normative differences in the roles and characteristics of women
and men.
Of
course, there was always an emphasis on caste, class , language, region and religious
affiliation as one of the criteria of matchmaking but education, occupation and
financial status has been added to the criteria too.
Love and Conjugality in and Beyond
Marriage
As
gender and sexuality have gathered interest in marriage discourse, it is
surprising that there such a paucity of attention given to the meanings and
contours of intimacy and desire (Trawick, 1990). This is based on the
assumption of a ‘normative conjugality’ in a functioning marriage which is a
hegemonic, heterosexual model. This model views subjective experiences as
emotional and individualistic. The confluence of couples expectations of each
other and societies expectations of them come together and differs according to
the rules of inheritance. For example, the ‘providing husband’ constitutes the
martial character of the matrilineal Thiyya community.
The
dominant conjugal models are the ones endorsed by the media and projected by
the elite. Therefore, it is possible that the lesser known models may have been
erased, as for example the tribes who are the polyandrous groups in the
Himalayas and among the Nayars. A combination of Brahmanical values and British
morals , male property rights and values of individual was coterminous with an
emphasis on co-resident, nuclear, conjugal family unit, male authority,
lifelong monogamy and fidelity on part of the women. For the poor the concept
of ‘providing husbands’ did not exist either in practice or in articulation.
Notions
of love marriage and the individual self are interlinked and have grown in
political valency. The concept of love has a connotation of being an individual
choice rather than a family expectation. The garment factory women workers want
love marriages but are undecided about what is more important love, or
marriage. Besides marriage after falling in love may involve lesser costs than
a regular arranged marriage. The hegemonic notion that sexual love will only be
legitimised within the confines of marriage is a thought process that
transcends beyond heteronormative relationships. Many gay rights activists and
gay informants found the institution of marriage aspirational.
Activism and Legal Interventions
When the
British administration took over India and other parts of the sub-continent,
they separated personal from criminal and civil laws. The supposition made was
that personal law was derived from community and religious law. At various
points of the colonial rule , national leaders and the women’s movements, as
well as religious and caste associations have demanded a legal reform of the
traditions, esp which had been re-interpreted in the domain of marriage. Issues
of legal marriageable age, dowry and domestic violence have been voiced. The
Shah Bano case was a very good example of showing the conflict between
religious sanctions and caste practices. The point to be noted here is that
despite differences in personal law and religious sanctions the experiences of
being divorced and widowed for women has been universally miserable.
The
author brings in the whole discussion of women’s agency and says that woman’s
agency appears to be ambiguous and inconsistent as a husband who has left her
for many years would be accepted if he returned. The working-class Dalit women
in Delhi are willing to let go of their unfavourable marriages but are
restricted by community norms. Therefore, unpacking the concept of agency is
crucial. So, choosing may not only be a choice to get married, but it could also be choosing
to reject a proposal. There is significant stigma attached to a woman rejecting
a proposal. Therefore , agency and choice can only be understood contextually.
Several
feminist organisations have been demanding legal reforms , and also in
providing legal aid in fighting court battles for dissolution of marriage. This
begs the question as to if social change can be lead by legal reforms (Mazumdar,
2000; Menon,1999). For example, the dissolution triple talaq, will it lead to
social change as there has been a legal prohibition of men giving their wives
divorce by saying talaq three times. There have been attempts to institute a
new model of Nikahnama, which may appear as an eye wash and little effort in
the huge battle being waged by women activist groups to ask for equal justice
for women in marriage and divorce.
The
concluding question is that is it possible to retain marriage as an institution
or a relationship without the social, sexual, economic, cultural and political
hierarchies that have been integral to it thus far?
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